Habits. It is worthwhile to develop good habits before beginning to practice meditation.
Be natural with yourself, honor all parts of yourself, use all of your senses, and welcome the rhythms of experience
When I work with people who have been meditating for a while – even 10 or 15 years – one of the issues that becomes apparent that they have developed bad habits. These go uncorrected for two reasons. One meditation is invisible, so almost no one gets adjustments. Two is that the effortless process of meditation is not well understood, even by most experts.
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One of the habits that I hear many of you describing, that sabotage your meditation ––is simply the idea that you are capable of, and supposed to, judge your moment to moment experience in meditation. This often leads to a subtle inner effort of blaming the self, as if you are hitting yourself invisibly inside. "Bad mind!"
The basic attitude behind this seems to be: "Hey I have been meditating for 15 seconds now, and because of my state of entitlement, I should be enlightened by now."
Another form this takes is that certain thoughts arise which say, "Hey, those other thoughts should not be there."
There are a couple of tactics here:
1. Welcome all thoughts and remember you do not need to act on them, even internally. Your brain is just cleaning out its filing cabinets, doing the dishes, vacuuming.
2. Notice the sensations underneath the thoughts. You may be feeling little bits of tension, fear, excitement, or pain here or there. These sensations may be the source of the energy for the thoughts. During meditation, the body wants to tune its circuits, and there is a massage-like phenomenon going on.
Re-read Meditation Made Easy if you are not getting this. In reality, meditators don't generally know when they are "deep" in meditation. You get used to whatever level you are on or in. The senses notice contrast. Change. Not so much steady-state.
The Just-Noticeable Difference JNDwhere is the original intensity of the particular stimulation, I is the addition to it required for the change to be perceived (the JND), and k is a constant. This rule was first discovered by Ernst Heinrich Weber (1795–1878), an anatomist and physiologist, in experiments on the thresholds of perception of lifted weights.